\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 In the Fall of 2008, my parents, my wife and I, chose a particular weekday and made the drive downtown to attend midday mass.\u00a0 We were even more excited than usual because for Wendy and I, it was our first time to be inside of the newly completed, blessed, and dedicated Sacred Heart Co-Cathedral of the Galveston-Houston Diocese. Oh we had driven by the beautiful landmark on numerous occasions, but never had the opportunity nor the time to actually enter the doors and see for ourselves what so many of our friends had been marveling about for months on end.\u00a0 We had heard stories of the lavish marble altar, the high-rise stained glass art, the imported statues of various Catholic saints, and all of the other facets that contributed to the majestic appeal of this new place of worship in our fair city.\u00a0 We were, needless to say, a tad more enthused than usual when we parked the car and crossed the street to attend mass.<\/p>\n
\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 My parents, who had been able to attend one of the initial celebratory masses during the Co-Cathedral’s first week of official usage, were beside themselves with delight as they awaited our reaction.\u00a0 We made sure to arrive at least 30 minutes early for the midday service so that we would have time both before and after mass to take photographs and for individual prayer time at\u00a0some of the many shrines housed within the walls of such a holy place.\u00a0 While I could truly go on and on at attempting to describe the beauty and elegance of the structure and all of the amenities within, let me just say that everything we had heard was true.\u00a0 It is a breathtaking tribute to our Lord and our faith.<\/p>\n
\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Before we knew it, it was time to be seated for the start of mass.\u00a0 I looked around and saw people of all walks of life filtering in for the service.\u00a0 Businessmen, health professionals, families like our own, individuals of all ages gradually made their way to a pew and awaited the announcement of the opening song.\u00a0 I couldn’t help but smile as my mind drifted momentarily to other notable times in my life when I had been blessed to attend Catholic mass at a place other than my home parish.\u00a0 Whether that mass took place in a neighboring state or across the Atlantic in Europe it was universally the same service that we were experiencing at that moment.\u00a0 One of the truest gifts of our Catholic faith is its sameness.<\/p>\n
\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Later that same day,\u00a0 my wife and I were recalling our exuberance and enthusiasm as we were preparing to visit this newest “house of the Lord”, it reminded me of a time when we had been invited a friend’s house for dinner.\u00a0 I had volunteered to teach a Bible study for a small group of interested youth from our parish.\u00a0 As it turned out, the only attendees for my class were three daughters from the same family.\u00a0 Their parents appreciated the fact that I was willing to devote 6 weeks of my time to teach a class that was basically for their kids.\u00a0 As a result of this, they had invited both Wendy and I to their home for a family dinner.\u00a0 As we were making the drive to their home, we shared our anxiousness about the evening that was about to unfold.\u00a0 What would they be serving for dinner?\u00a0 What would we talk about?\u00a0 Will we feel comfortable?\u00a0 Will they?\u00a0 How long should we stay?\u00a0 Should we bring anything with us? Do they have a dog?<\/p>\n
Of course, once we got there all of our nervous questions and doubts disappeared almost instantly.\u00a0 We were given a comfortable place to sit.\u00a0 They offered us something to drink.\u00a0 The dinner was incredibly tasty.\u00a0 We laughed together.\u00a0 We shared stories.\u00a0 We broke bread.\u00a0 We prayed.\u00a0 We felt at home because the family made us feel instantly welcome once they opened the door.\u00a0 Believe it or not, we had such a wonderful time and before you knew it, it was time to go.\u00a0 They assured us that we could come back any time, and we could tell by the look in their eyes and on their faces that they were all so very sincere with their open invitation.\u00a0 On the drive home, we had only one question, “How long would it be before we would be able to come back?”<\/p>\n
The very same feelings of excitement and anticipation that we had felt on our way to this parish family’s home was identical to our feelings about our first visit to Houston’s new Co-Cathedral.\u00a0 It makes me wonder if other people look at going to mass the same way as this.\u00a0 In the past 10 years or so, our Catholic church has been the victim of countless, ongoing attacks from Hollywood, the media, and society in general.\u00a0 While this is hardly a new development, the Catholic church being under siege from outside and from within, it is nonetheless a factor that some people use as their justification for turning away from their house of the Lord.<\/p>\n
I also acknowledged the tendency that occurs when there has been some distance between relationships.\u00a0 Have you ever had a friend that you sort of lost contact simply because you’re both preoccupied?\u00a0 You keep thinking of them, and meaning to pick up the phone and call, but for some reason you don’t.\u00a0 This happens to me quite a bit.\u00a0 At 45 years old, I have met so many wonderful people in my life, but its physically not possible to stay close to each and every one of them.\u00a0 So time passes.\u00a0 These people remain in my thoughts but sometimes it feels like the longer I wait to re-establish contact with them, the harder it is to do it.\u00a0 Perhaps this is also how it is with our brothers and sisters who have fallen away from their faith?\u00a0 Maybe they keep thinking about coming back to church, but things keep coming up or thoughts keep arising that blocks them from making that much needed return.\u00a0<\/p>\n
My prayer is that for all those people who somehow find themselves cut off or forgotten or betrayed by the church, that they stop and remember that our God, our Father loves us unconditionally.\u00a0 We are ALWAYS welcome in his house.\u00a0 There is always a seat at his table.\u00a0 Much like my wife and I’s visit to the Sacred Heart Co-Cathedral or to the parish family for dinner, a return to the table of the Lord should be just as exhilerating and just as fulfilling.\u00a0 My prayer is for all of those out there who have allowed time to pass and obstacles to keep them from returning to church, that they remember how it feels to be in a loving, inviting, welcoming house.\u00a0 Such is the house of God.\u00a0<\/p>\n
I also believe that\u00a0more of us should\u00a0take a moment while at mass to look around and realize that we are home.\u00a0 We are loved.\u00a0 We are there as part of the body of Christ.\u00a0 As we sit there, and look and listen to what God has provided for us, our fears, worries, and shortcomings will be lost.\u00a0 It is at moments like this, where our doubts are replaced with peace, our fears are replaced with faith, and the question of “Will I feel comfortable??” will be replaced with “How long until I can come back?”<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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